OK, true this post may not "quite" be what you thought it was about.... at least directly!
The "sweet spot" I'm talking about involves encouraging your wife to "do more work and activities she feels created to do, gifted to do and energized by doing."
The opposite: her doing more and more stuff she feels forced to do, not gifted to do and drained doing.....
So, here's the long and short right up front: When husbands help and encourage their wives to do what they do best, as much as possible, the love in their marriage will burn long and strong.
[cryout-pullquote no one ever taught me that. You?
And the absolute most important person around that can help their wife see truly discover and live their destiny:
Consider: If your wife was to discover and engage her sweet spot she will likely
1. Come alive! (They get more energy and spend less time drained)
2. Bring more life and energy into the marriage relationship - not less!
3. Encourage you to discover and engage your own sweet-spot!
Those three things are all great! Do you believe it?Some ways to discover her sweet spot or help her discover it:
Notice:
What did your wife just do when she came home fired up and fully alive?Notice: What did she feel really proud of doing before you married?
Notice: Where is she really, really gifted? (Is she fully utilizing and developing those things?)
Ask Her: If you were fully free from responsibilities and money pressures for a whole year, what would you do?
Ask Her: What 5 accomplishments from your life are you most proud of? (Consider, what do her answers say about her sweet spot?)
The potential for her finding AND engaging her sweet spot may be an easy tweak - OR a major change. (even a job change!)What's on the other end... life! For her and for you!
PS.
Here's what a couple who just did them over an anniversary dinner at an anniversary dinner had to say.. CLiCK TO DOWNLOAD
